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The Day I Realised Public Speaking Fear Was Actually Ruining Australian Business (And How I Fixed It)
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Forget everything you've been told about public speaking fear being "normal" or "just part of life." After 18 years running leadership workshops across Melbourne, Brisbane, and Perth, I'm calling bullshit on this entire narrative.
The statistics are staggering. Roughly 75% of executives I work with would rather undergo a root canal than present quarterly results to their board. That's not quirky or endearing – it's a business disaster waiting to happen.
Here's what really grinds my gears: we've normalised mediocrity in Australian corporate communication to such an extent that being terrified of your own voice has become a badge of honour. "Oh, I'm just not a public speaker," they say, as if it's a genetic condition like colour blindness.
But let me tell you about Sarah.
Sarah ran a mid-sized accounting firm in Adelaide. Brilliant with numbers, absolute disaster with humans. Board meetings were torture sessions where she'd mumble through profit reports while staring at her shoes. Her team started making jokes about it. Not cruel jokes, but you know the type – "Better hope Sarah doesn't have to explain this to clients."
The breaking point came during a pitch to their biggest potential client. Sarah froze. Completely. Twenty-three seconds of dead silence in a room full of decision-makers. Her business partner had to step in and salvage what was left of their credibility.
They lost the account. Obviously.
That's when Sarah called me, practically in tears. "I need stress management training, but for speaking," she said. Wrong. She needed to understand that public speaking fear isn't about stress – it's about control.
Most people think public speaking anxiety stems from fear of judgement. Partially true, but that's surface-level psychology. The real issue? Loss of control. When you're speaking publicly, you can't control the audience's reactions, their facial expressions, their internal dialogue. You can't pause and Google the perfect response.
This drives control-oriented personalities (which describes 90% of successful business people) absolutely mental.
The solution isn't breathing exercises or visualisation techniques – though those help. The solution is reframing control entirely.
Here's my controversial take: public speaking should feel slightly uncomfortable. Always. The moment you're completely comfortable behind a podium, you've probably become boring. Some of the most compelling presentations I've witnessed had speakers who were visibly nervous but channelled that energy into passion.
Take Steve Jobs. People forget he was notoriously anxious about keynotes. But Apple's presentations became legendary precisely because of that underlying tension. You could feel him caring desperately about every word.
Compare that to the corporate zombies who drone through PowerPoint slides like they're reading a grocery list. Technically competent, emotionally vacant. Which presentation would you rather attend?
I've noticed something interesting working with teams across different Australian cities. Melbourne executives tend to overthink their presentations – too much analysis, not enough feeling. Sydney folks often go the opposite direction – all style, questionable substance. Brisbane strikes the best balance, maybe because they're not trying to impress anyone.
Perth and Adelaide? They just want to get it over with, which honestly produces some of the most authentic presentations I've seen.
The biggest mistake organisations make is sending people to generic "presentation skills" courses. These typically focus on hand gestures and eye contact – completely missing the point. You can have perfect posture and clear diction while still being forgettable.
What matters is having something worth saying and believing it completely.
I learned this the hard way early in my career. Got invited to speak at a major industry conference in Sydney. Spent weeks preparing, memorising every transition, practising gestures in the mirror. The presentation was technically flawless and absolutely forgettable. Nobody remembered a single point I made.
Contrast that with a workshop I ran last month where everything went wrong. Projector died, microphone kept cutting out, someone's phone rang during my opening story. But the energy in the room was electric because we were solving real problems together instead of performing choreographed perfection.
Here's what actually works for managing difficult conversations in public speaking contexts:
Start with problems, not solutions. Most presentations begin with "Today I'm going to tell you about..." Wrong approach. Begin with "Here's what's broken and why it matters to you specifically."
Stories beat statistics every time. I could tell you that 68% of Australian businesses lose revenue due to poor internal communication (completely made-up statistic, by the way, but sounds believable doesn't it?). Or I could tell you about the mining company that lost a $2.3 million contract because their site manager couldn't explain safety protocols clearly to visiting inspectors.
Which one made you pay attention?
Embrace imperfection strategically. Plan for things to go wrong and have genuine responses ready. When your PowerPoint crashes, don't apologise profusely – say something like "Perfect, now we can actually have a conversation instead of staring at slides."
The audience wants you to succeed. This took me years to understand, but it's fundamental. Nobody attends presentations hoping to watch someone fail embarrassingly. They're there because they need information, inspiration, or solutions. They're silently cheering for you to deliver value.
Australian business culture actually makes this easier than other countries. We're naturally skeptical of overly polished presentations. A bit of genuine nervousness or self-deprecating humour often works better than trying to channel some American motivational speaker energy.
But here's where I see people constantly shooting themselves in the foot: they confuse humility with self-sabotage. There's a difference between saying "I'm not the world's greatest speaker, but I know this topic inside out" versus "Sorry, I'm probably boring you, this might not be relevant, I should probably wrap up soon."
The first shows confidence in your expertise. The second begs the audience to tune out.
And please, for the love of all that's holy, stop starting presentations with "Thanks for having me, I know you'd rather be doing other things." Of course they'd rather be doing other things. Everyone has other things to do. Acknowledge that by making your time together valuable, not by reinforcing that it's a waste of time.
Speaking of time, here's another unpopular opinion: most business presentations are too long. Cut everything by 30% and you'll be closer to optimal length. People's attention spans aren't shrinking – we're just finally admitting that most content isn't worth sustained attention.
Netflix figured this out years ago. They don't make every series 22 episodes because that's what television used to do. They make each series exactly as long as the story requires. Apply this thinking to your presentations.
I've worked with companies like Microsoft Australia and Telstra on communication strategies, and the most successful leaders share one trait: they're comfortable with silence. They ask questions and actually wait for answers. They pause between key points instead of rushing to fill every moment with words.
Silence terrifies most presenters, but it's actually your friend. It gives the audience time to process information and signals confidence in your message.
The final piece that transforms nervous speakers into compelling ones? Practice presenting controversial opinions respectfully. Not controversial for shock value, but genuinely challenging ideas that push thinking forward.
For example: I believe most "team building" activities are wastes of money that actually reduce productivity. That's not a popular view in corporate training circles, but I can defend it with evidence and experience. When you present ideas you truly believe in – even if they're unpopular – your authenticity comes through naturally.
The fear doesn't disappear completely. Sarah still gets nervous before major presentations, but now she uses that energy to connect more deeply with her audience. Her accounting firm landed their biggest client ever last quarter after she presented their strategic vision with genuine passion instead of rehearsed perfection.
That's the real goal. Not eliminating fear, but transforming it into something useful.
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